Correct Pacifier Use, Important!

Posted on Aug 5, 2015

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By Dr. Wilson:

I have seen so many pacifiers being used incorrectly and dangerously in clinic recently that I felt the need to address this issue.

First, I am not at all against pacifier use. There are some good studies showing that pacifier use in infants decreases the risk of SIDS, and can help aid in breastfeeding by allowing mom less stress from a fussy infant. There is NO good evidence that pacifier use in infants causes any kind of “nipple confusion”, or hinders good breastfeeding.

However, it is very important that parents know what kinds of pacifiers to use, and what ages to use them.

The Dangers:

The most common mistake I see is parents using the Soothie pacifier (the one with the round shaped nipple) in soothiebabies who are much too old for that style of pacifier. There are two big problems with using a Soothie pacifier beyond 6-months of age… The first problem is that the material that those pacifiers are made out of is not designed to stand up to teeth. We have seen babies choke from biting off the tip of the Soothie pacifier and breathing it in. It is a good idea, even before they have teeth, to get in the habit of checking the pacifier nipples for cracks on a regular basis (Avent actually recommends replacing the Soothie every 4-weeks).

The second problem is that as babies get older the round shape of the Soothie pacifier will start to cause problems with the shape of the gums, roof of the mouth, and front teeth. Below is a picture showing what kind of teeth problems we commonly see.pojfgen94wwqpk

Switch at 6 months of age:

After 6-months old, or as soon as teeth come in it is important to switch to an orthodontic pacifier with the more flat shaped nipple such as these in the picture below.yk-236_1z

Get rid of pacifiers by 18 months old:

The age that you really need to get rid of all pacifiers (and bottles) is 18-months old.

I’ve heard all kinds of strategies from parents about how they have tried to get rid of pacifiers, but in general I would only recommend two different methods because I don’t like any methods that encourage parents to tell their children lies (like the pacifier is “lost”, or “the pacifier fairy took them”…)

  • Method #1: I call it the “rip the band-aid off” method, and is my personal preference. This is the quickest way but for some can be “painful”, and involves simply throwing ALL the pacifiers in the house away and they are gone forever. For this method a parent would want to talk to the child every day for about 1-week leading up to trash day, and clearly inform the child about what the plan is. When the day comes, it is good for the child to either watch you throw the pacifiers in the trash, or even throw them away him or herself to help reinforce that they are gone. With this method some toddlers will surprise you and not even notice that they are gone, but often it will be a little bit rough with fussiness for 2-3 days. I’ve never seen it take longer than the fourth day before they have completely forgotten about pacifiers. If this is the route you take I have one big warning: the worst thing you could do is to throw them away, and then give in one or two days later and bring them back. This would make getting rid of them in the future ten times worse! So if this is the method you choose you have to be committed.
  • Method #2: This is more of a weaning method, and is a little longer process, but some parents prefer this more gentle approach. With this method there is a product called the Pacifier Weaning System from One Step Ahead that I have had some feedback from parents telling me that it worked well. You could do something similar yourself by cutting the tip of a pacifier shorter and shorter every 2-days until there wasn’t anything left to suck on. If you try this method and your child is throwing tantrums, then it’s time to go to method #1!

Whichever method you choose, it can help to substitute something else to help comfort them when they sleep such as a stuffed animal or a blanket.

When you start the process stick with it and don’t give in! The older the child gets the harder it can be to kick the habit.


  1. Bethany Zimmerman
    August 5, 2015

    As a dental assistant I see a lot of older children come in with teeth very similar if not exact to the picture posted above. This can cause so many orthodontic issues for kiddos, and parents end up spending thousands of dollars on orthodontics to fix their childrens occlusion, and teeth. Let alone the choking issue mentioned above. So if you want to save money in the future on orthodontic dentistry, listen to this advice and follow what is recommended for the age of your baby. 🙂

    • Como Cubs
      August 5, 2015

      Thanks for the comment!


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